Tuesday, January 6, 2009

'Teacher, masa untuk balik ke??'

Yesterday was a memorable day for Ako. It's his first day to nursery!!
It was very very fascinating and exciting to see him wearing school uniform, with medium size of Ironman school bag(complete with blinking lamp as accessories), white, red and blue color of bubble gummers pair of shoes and light blue okaidi socks (nasib baik tak beli adidas...sbb almost kids just wear a normal white school shoes with white socks..huhu..) and hang on his neck the bumble bee water thumbler.
I'll paste the picture of him later. Tersalah bawak cable lak...isk isk..

Masuk dlm kelas Teacher Chong for nursery class only, he was sitting besides a chinese boy. Hm..actually almost all of them are chinese. There are like 10 kids in the class and 2 malay boy(including Ako), 2 malay girl and the rest are all chinese. From a glance of other classes which is 5 and 6 years old, there's only like 1/3 are the other races. Very few Indians, and almost all Chinese.

Ako just sit there while viewing the whole class and I think he is still like looking for a right time to communicate. All others are of course speaking in Chinese so it's quite hard for him to interrupt. But, as Ako's nature is a outgoing and socialize kids..haha(menurun sape ni?)..after around 15 mins, he started to talk to the kids sit next to him.haha...sasuga anak ibu!
Luckily the kids can speak malay...

After few moment, me konon2 mcm nak blah la..tinggalkan dia..but, he was about to cry....waving to me..
Ibu, jgn pergi. Dok situ..situ..masuk dlm sikit....Tunggu ako ye.
hahahaha.....ingatkan dah terer...me pun dok la situ..sampai kelas habis...
My hubby lak just waiting outside the class..berhimpit ramai2 outside with other parents. All were smiling looking at their kids...maybe all have similar hopes..hoping their kids will not cry and be independent...becoz actually there were few kids yg crying and running out from the class refusing to be with others...alhamdulillah...Ako okay je.

Around 10.15am, all the kids are started to pack their stuff(very cute..hehe). I dont know why, but all were very busy, walking around and same goes to Ako.
He suddenly asked the teacher :
'Teacher, masa untuk balik ke??'
hahahahaha....punyala kelakar...nak pecah perut gelak...haha..cute little kids...all were very eager wanna go home. Maybe the 1 hour is already too long for them.

From my view, it was okay. The teacher asked every like 15 mins for pee and she did walking around and make sure all kids are comfortable. Make the kids wash hands before having meal.
At first we didn't reqeust for snack, but when looking at the environment, and Ako actually want to have nilo with the rest(isk..malu lak...hehe).....we finally requested for it. Add another RM125 for 5 mths snacks.

Once class finished, I asked the teacher to send him to our babysitter's house by van. It's a new Avanza, bkn normal van yg kaler orange tu....and send by their own teacher.

Ako arrived safely and he was like sooo tired. Baru 2 jam...isk isk..terus nak balik rumah and nak take nap...
So, today is his 2nd day and hubby is going to send him. Kebetulan hubby is on off day, so after sent Ako, he will pretend going home..but actually he was there sneaking..mcm pencuri lak..
Hubby said Ako seems ok and he is now playing outside the school.
Hope everyting will be okay and he like the school.

Friday, January 2, 2009

Fixed sitting location

Finally, I or actually our team was placed at our fixed sitting location. haa...*relief*
This is our 3rd time moved around in like 2000sq feet cubicles(the office is a tiny cute office) within not more than 2 months time.

Argh...tired to carry things which are the 2 CPUs, 1 monitor, 1 phone, keyboards, mouse, calendar bla bla..several times.Even have to clean every place we go, as all of them(same goes to us) just think about the new place, without even bother to clean up the old place.

I will probably upload the pictures of my cubicle maybe next week when everything was completed. Also clear my old debt to Arnie and Yani Yusuf...(tag yg dah berkurun lama).
Now, the place is still more or less like a ah chong call centre-dusty and noisy..
I hope mine's now is going to be a permanent place(as long as I stay here..) since it is quite strategic place.
adios!!

Thursday, January 1, 2009

Theraphy

Wah..best memang best jumpa kengkawan dan buat mcm2 aktiviti SATU hari suntuk.
Dari around 10am sampai 7pm.
Pagi jumpa di KL sentral..Dot, Fiza and Rez tgh breakfast..sorry ye kengkawan..saye terlambat sikit..sbb pagi tu gi jogging jap. Lama sgt tak jogging, tu yg rasa terpaksa pergi..
Lepas Suru n Ida sampai kat parking, terus naik monorel turun di Imbi-Berjaya Times Square.
Suru singgah beli auntie anne had some light bfast sbb kang 2 jam dlm bilik tu..langsung takleh mkn..
Sampai Jojoba, we were welcomed greated. Service very tip top. Kami di soh pergi washroom dulu, then masa kami masuk balik tu, ada 6 org tgh beratur tunggu kat tepi entrance to the rooms. Huh! the feeling masa tu, mcm puteri raja lak...hehe..perasan.



Treatment were including scrub, bath tub, ear candle and full body massage. Memang best. walaupun minah tu kecik je..tp dia urut memang power..kena pada semua urat2...best tol...dahla sembang ngan Fiza mcm2 tak berenti2 2 jam...itupun 1 lg theraphy tu..hehhe..
Abis treatment, we had our lunch at Penang delight..(eh betul ke nama kedai ni ek..) dan, lepas tu naik monorel ke Bukit Bintang lak..gi Pavilion.
Shopping!!
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Balik dr Pavilion, naik la monorel nak ke KL sentral kononnya...dan, me confident je naik ke platfrom B...sembang masing2 tak ingat dlm tu...alih2...sampai shuten..aik? Titiwangsa??? bkn patutnya we're suuposed to head KL sentral ke? hahahaha
Dok terus dlm monorel tu...sampaila syuten lagi...finally Kl sentral.
Sampai rumah dah dekat kol 8...
Best!!

p/s : opps...ok tak tudung yg me pakai tu? baru dpt dr Ninie kelmarin. Bestla pakai tudung tu..senang pakai dan material dia best.TQ so much Ninie...nanti nak order yg lain lagila...hehe

Wednesday, December 31, 2008

Farewell 2008, Welcome 2009

Akhirnya 2008 dah hampir menutup tirai. Bila tgk semua org buat konklusi utk kisah hidup masing2...me pun nak senaraikan my successed thingy that me can proud of to.

1-LOSS WEIGHT!!! ni part yg paling best. Kiranya hampir2 nak dpt berat ideal(lg 2kg exactly to shed off but...mcm dah malas sikit..tu yg relax je..maintain je...).
My dad yg never mentioned anything about my weight or size or anything...biasala kan dad...kan lebih byk diam je...but, recently dia ada tegur..
abah : yani ni makin kecik ye..mkn hati ke?
me : kakakak...isk abah ni..yani memang kontrol mkn sikit..
abah : jgnla kurus sgt..abah suka kalau anak2 abah...berisi sikit...abah tgkpun mcm kenyang je...(hehe...nampak kenyang??)..senang je abah tgk...
me : ala abah...yani ok..cuma mcm kalau kurus sikit..takdela sakit.kan elok..takdela sakit nanti...
abah : hahha

2-be independent(can drive to the office and manage the kids alone)
eversince I go to office with my husband and never foot on the pedal again, I was very scared to drive alone again esp to office in the middle of KL. I was afraid not only to the massive traffic jam, but also to scretch my hubby's car.
But since recently my hubby start working on shift I have to handle my kids which is very awesome for myself also and driving to the office.
*big grin*

3-send Ako to school
I made many plans on Ako educations.
-to send him to nursery start from 4. just to have him to get adopt to social environment, and of course not to push him to learn hard.
-to have him to learn English in a proper way with proper accent either in American or British. but, I think Ako is more to British accent*thanks to Thomas and frens*
me, my self dont learn English in a proper way, and because I use jap language as my 2nd lang rather than English, and it makes me now learning back English start from the beginning. It's not easy you know as our brain also not as fresh as the kids..haha.

And, as on the weekend I managed to registered school and bought all the stuffs for Ako, I feel so relief altho it cost about more than RM1K!! Atleast I was successed to finished the task..

At this moment, I think this is what I can remember. If me have others in my mind, will update later.

WELCOME 2009!!
My target for this new year :

1-Penyabar...
2-Rajin (target nak habiskan tong gas yg dah 3 thn kat rumah tak habis2 tu..hhaha)
3-Buy a new house
4-Shed another 2,3 kgs...
5-Berjimat cermat aka tambahkan saving
6-Nak contribute more to both parents aka jadi anak berguna la...(aiseh, skrg ni mcmla anak kurang berguna ek...haha..nak contirbute MORE and MORE) barula rezeki tu berkat kan...

oo..cerita pasal contribution to parents ni...saje nak share infos..
for me, if I compared when I give money to my parents to not...
RM0 -> You will feel more like dont have anough money to spend. And, of course feel guilty...
RMxxx -> Of course relief and somehow manage to get everything you plan..
Maybe it's KEBERKATAN...(kaf ba ro kaf ta nun...selingan dr drama dunia baru...hehe)

7-Become more gorgeous..huhu

These are all came across in my mind...maybe we can add it more later...after me have the Jojoba SPA session..hehe...will update about it later...(actually now I'm at the KL sentral waiting for my frens to gather and go to Berjaya....can't wait....huhuhu)

Tuesday, December 30, 2008

Kesilapan ibu bapa

Sometimes we never thought any kids behaviour come from our mistakes. And, maybe sometimes we do realized, but no initiative to improve ourselves?Or, maybe sometimes we are stressed so that we can't even managed our anger?
Which one is the reason, is depend on us...just we are the one who know ourselves better.

I found an article on WHY our kids jadik liar and not controllable by their parents.
It's a very informative articles to review.

Pakar motivasi dan psikiatri sering mencari punca mengapa anak-anak menjadi liar, tidak mendengar kata, melawan orang tua dan pelbagai salah laku oleh segelintir anak-anak terhadap kedua ibu bapa mereka.

Dalam mendidik anak, mungkin cara ibu bapa salah. Dalam proses tumbesarannya, anak-anak pasti melalui pelbagai perkara yang mungkin boleh membuat mereka terdorong melakukan sesuatu di luar jangkaan.

Apabila melihat kelakuan anak-anak itu, semestinya ia dikaitkan dengan cara didikan ibu bapa.Justeru, mari kita selidik kesilapan ibu bapa sehingga menyebabkan kesan negatif anak-anak.

Antaranya:

1. Pemilihan jodoh tanpa memperhitungkan mengenai zuriat.

2. Perhubungan suami isteri tanpa memperhitungkan mengenai zuriat.

3. Kurang berlemah lembut terhadap anak-anak.

4. Memaki hamun sebagai cara menegur kesilapan anak-anak.

5. Tidak berusaha mempelbagaikan makanan yang disajikan kepada anak-anak.

6. Jarang bersama anak-anak sewaktu mereka sedang makan.

7. Melahirkan suasana yang kurang seronok ketika makan.

8. Membeza-bezakan kasih sayang terhadap anak-anak.

9. Kurang melahirkan kasih sayang.

10. Sering mengeluh di hadapan anak-anak.

11. Tidak meraikan anak-anak ketika mereka pergi dan pulang dari sekolah.

12. Tidak mengenalkan anak-anak dengan konsep keadilan.

13. Tidak memberatkan pendidikan agama di kalangan anak-anak.

14. Tidak terlibat dengan urusan pelajaran anak-anak.

15. Tidak memprogramkan masa rehat dan riadah anak-anak.

16. Tidak menggalakkan dan menyediakan suasana suka membaca.

17. Mengizinkan anak-anak menjamah makanan dan minuman yang tidak halal.

18. Tidak menunjukkan contoh teladan yang baik di hadapan anak-anak.

19. Jarang meluangkan masa untuk bergurau senda dengan anak-anak.

20. Terdapat jurang komunikasi di antara ibu bapa dengan anak-anak.

21. Tidak menggunakan bahasa yang betul.

22. Suka bertengkar di hadapan anak-anak.

23. Sentiasa menunjukkan muka masam di hadapan anak-anak.

24. Tidak membimbing anak-anak supaya mematuhi syariat.

25. Memberi kebebasan yang berlebihan kepada anak-anak.

26. Terlalu mengongkong kebebasan anak-anak.

27. Tidak menunaikan janji yang dibuat terhadap anak-anak.

28. Tidak menunjukkan minat terhadap aktiviti anak-anak.

29. Tidak memupuk semangat membaca di kalangan anak-anak.

30. Tidak berminat melayan pertanyaan atau kemusykilan anak-anak.

31. Tidak memberi perhatian terhadap buah fikiran anak-anak.

32. Lambat memberi penghargaan kepada anak-anak.

33. Kerap meleteri sesuatu kesilapan yang dilakukan anak-anak.

34. Hukuman yang tidak setimpal dengan kesalahan yang dilakukan.

35. Sering mengancam dan menakutkan anak-anak.

36. Menghukum tanpa menyatakan kesalahan yang dilakukan.

37. Tidak konsisten dalam menjatuhkan hukuman ke atas anak-anak.

38. Memberi nasihat yang sama kepada anak-anak.

39. Tidak tegas mendidik anak-anak.

40. Tidak menggalakkan anak-anak hidup bekerjasama.

Yes, those are all true. There are reasons behind, but we can't prevent from the outsider and environment influented factors. I think nowadays it will make a lot of differents whether you are staying in a what we called 'high end', 'middle cost' or 'low end' environment.
And, which area or environment do we stay now is depend on how we judge it..

Mintak2 anak2 kita semua dilindungi Allah dan tak termasuk dlm golongan2 org yg dimaksudkan diatas..AMIN..

Saturday, December 27, 2008

Riadah

Even skrg ni aktiviti riadah dah kurang, tp kami still cari masa utk melakukan aktiviti sihat and try to find as much quality time as we could to make sure our kids have their fun times..and of course us too!
We go jogging at either Kelana jaya tasik or Titiwangsa.
N, if any of you all know, now they had re-built a new playground area in the middle of Titiwangsa itself. slighlt far from previous area, but it's bigger, newer but a little bit hot coz not sorrounded by any big trees.



Us..at the new playground area.Alani..penatla tu..dahla dtg dah tegahari..hehe..kesian budak2 ni.

And, actually last night we went there again but at NIGHT, as a compensate from hubby sbb the next night he will be working..(hehe, baiknya abah..)...but, for me i prefer to go at night. It was a windy night and what i most suprprised is a LOT of people there. Not only kids..but youngsters. There have some sort of picnic while playing..no wonder the buai and all those get broken and loose...now I know...aiseh..tak senonoh betulla.




These are some pix taken when we were buying some ikan bilis etc at Teluk Batik, Lumut.Ako tu tgh pegang ketam fridge magnet..besar tu...Alani with opah...but, inila last gambar ngan hat yg comel ini..sbb lepas ambik gambar ni...hat ni tak tahu pegi mana...rasanya alani cabut dan campak...takpela...ni chance nak cari hat baru...hehe


Anak abah? Muka mcm abah ke?Tu opah kat belakang tgh layan ako nak apa agaknya..


And, normally after any activities, we have meal at our certain favorites only(coz hubby ni fussy sikit pasal mkn..hehe)

Gambar ni..ako mkn roti dgn seleranya..sampai tak sedar hidung dah dibalut tepung...dan yg paling menggembirakan ku...dia ambik paper lepas mkn. I mean, tanpa disuruh...dgn automatically, habis mkn..dia bangun, ambik paper(tak terbalik tau..) dan baca(kononla tu..)

Tgkla gayanya tu....bangganya dgn Ako...(ignore kan perasaan bannga seorang ibu ni ye...hehe)


Dan, ini kira aktiviti riadah ke..hehe

Friday, December 26, 2008

Cantiknya..

Our normal activity is pusing shopping complex..hahah..

N, kami memang looking forward nakgi D curve area kalau menjelang krismas. Sbbnya...deconya amat cantik sekali.

Cantikkan...thn ni tema dia hijau..thn lepas lagi cantik rasanya

Alani lepak setelah kepenatan round sight viewing kat Krsimas tree..Ako..skrg ni suka betul possing mcm2 gaya...hehe

Alani terpegun..'I wish I can play with that 'snow'...'

Dan, the next pix is Alani dgn beg Handbag Barney nya...kecik2 pun dah menunjukkan minat pada HANDBAG!! kuang kuang...ni mesti menurun me kan...cute je...