Wednesday, December 31, 2008

Farewell 2008, Welcome 2009

Akhirnya 2008 dah hampir menutup tirai. Bila tgk semua org buat konklusi utk kisah hidup masing2...me pun nak senaraikan my successed thingy that me can proud of to.

1-LOSS WEIGHT!!! ni part yg paling best. Kiranya hampir2 nak dpt berat ideal(lg 2kg exactly to shed off but...mcm dah malas sikit..tu yg relax je..maintain je...).
My dad yg never mentioned anything about my weight or size or anything...biasala kan dad...kan lebih byk diam je...but, recently dia ada tegur..
abah : yani ni makin kecik ye..mkn hati ke?
me : kakakak...isk abah ni..yani memang kontrol mkn sikit..
abah : jgnla kurus sgt..abah suka kalau anak2 abah...berisi sikit...abah tgkpun mcm kenyang je...(hehe...nampak kenyang??)..senang je abah tgk...
me : ala abah...yani ok..cuma mcm kalau kurus sikit..takdela sakit.kan elok..takdela sakit nanti...
abah : hahha

2-be independent(can drive to the office and manage the kids alone)
eversince I go to office with my husband and never foot on the pedal again, I was very scared to drive alone again esp to office in the middle of KL. I was afraid not only to the massive traffic jam, but also to scretch my hubby's car.
But since recently my hubby start working on shift I have to handle my kids which is very awesome for myself also and driving to the office.
*big grin*

3-send Ako to school
I made many plans on Ako educations.
-to send him to nursery start from 4. just to have him to get adopt to social environment, and of course not to push him to learn hard.
-to have him to learn English in a proper way with proper accent either in American or British. but, I think Ako is more to British accent*thanks to Thomas and frens*
me, my self dont learn English in a proper way, and because I use jap language as my 2nd lang rather than English, and it makes me now learning back English start from the beginning. It's not easy you know as our brain also not as fresh as the kids..haha.

And, as on the weekend I managed to registered school and bought all the stuffs for Ako, I feel so relief altho it cost about more than RM1K!! Atleast I was successed to finished the task..

At this moment, I think this is what I can remember. If me have others in my mind, will update later.

WELCOME 2009!!
My target for this new year :

1-Penyabar...
2-Rajin (target nak habiskan tong gas yg dah 3 thn kat rumah tak habis2 tu..hhaha)
3-Buy a new house
4-Shed another 2,3 kgs...
5-Berjimat cermat aka tambahkan saving
6-Nak contribute more to both parents aka jadi anak berguna la...(aiseh, skrg ni mcmla anak kurang berguna ek...haha..nak contirbute MORE and MORE) barula rezeki tu berkat kan...

oo..cerita pasal contribution to parents ni...saje nak share infos..
for me, if I compared when I give money to my parents to not...
RM0 -> You will feel more like dont have anough money to spend. And, of course feel guilty...
RMxxx -> Of course relief and somehow manage to get everything you plan..
Maybe it's KEBERKATAN...(kaf ba ro kaf ta nun...selingan dr drama dunia baru...hehe)

7-Become more gorgeous..huhu

These are all came across in my mind...maybe we can add it more later...after me have the Jojoba SPA session..hehe...will update about it later...(actually now I'm at the KL sentral waiting for my frens to gather and go to Berjaya....can't wait....huhuhu)

Tuesday, December 30, 2008

Kesilapan ibu bapa

Sometimes we never thought any kids behaviour come from our mistakes. And, maybe sometimes we do realized, but no initiative to improve ourselves?Or, maybe sometimes we are stressed so that we can't even managed our anger?
Which one is the reason, is depend on us...just we are the one who know ourselves better.

I found an article on WHY our kids jadik liar and not controllable by their parents.
It's a very informative articles to review.

Pakar motivasi dan psikiatri sering mencari punca mengapa anak-anak menjadi liar, tidak mendengar kata, melawan orang tua dan pelbagai salah laku oleh segelintir anak-anak terhadap kedua ibu bapa mereka.

Dalam mendidik anak, mungkin cara ibu bapa salah. Dalam proses tumbesarannya, anak-anak pasti melalui pelbagai perkara yang mungkin boleh membuat mereka terdorong melakukan sesuatu di luar jangkaan.

Apabila melihat kelakuan anak-anak itu, semestinya ia dikaitkan dengan cara didikan ibu bapa.Justeru, mari kita selidik kesilapan ibu bapa sehingga menyebabkan kesan negatif anak-anak.

Antaranya:

1. Pemilihan jodoh tanpa memperhitungkan mengenai zuriat.

2. Perhubungan suami isteri tanpa memperhitungkan mengenai zuriat.

3. Kurang berlemah lembut terhadap anak-anak.

4. Memaki hamun sebagai cara menegur kesilapan anak-anak.

5. Tidak berusaha mempelbagaikan makanan yang disajikan kepada anak-anak.

6. Jarang bersama anak-anak sewaktu mereka sedang makan.

7. Melahirkan suasana yang kurang seronok ketika makan.

8. Membeza-bezakan kasih sayang terhadap anak-anak.

9. Kurang melahirkan kasih sayang.

10. Sering mengeluh di hadapan anak-anak.

11. Tidak meraikan anak-anak ketika mereka pergi dan pulang dari sekolah.

12. Tidak mengenalkan anak-anak dengan konsep keadilan.

13. Tidak memberatkan pendidikan agama di kalangan anak-anak.

14. Tidak terlibat dengan urusan pelajaran anak-anak.

15. Tidak memprogramkan masa rehat dan riadah anak-anak.

16. Tidak menggalakkan dan menyediakan suasana suka membaca.

17. Mengizinkan anak-anak menjamah makanan dan minuman yang tidak halal.

18. Tidak menunjukkan contoh teladan yang baik di hadapan anak-anak.

19. Jarang meluangkan masa untuk bergurau senda dengan anak-anak.

20. Terdapat jurang komunikasi di antara ibu bapa dengan anak-anak.

21. Tidak menggunakan bahasa yang betul.

22. Suka bertengkar di hadapan anak-anak.

23. Sentiasa menunjukkan muka masam di hadapan anak-anak.

24. Tidak membimbing anak-anak supaya mematuhi syariat.

25. Memberi kebebasan yang berlebihan kepada anak-anak.

26. Terlalu mengongkong kebebasan anak-anak.

27. Tidak menunaikan janji yang dibuat terhadap anak-anak.

28. Tidak menunjukkan minat terhadap aktiviti anak-anak.

29. Tidak memupuk semangat membaca di kalangan anak-anak.

30. Tidak berminat melayan pertanyaan atau kemusykilan anak-anak.

31. Tidak memberi perhatian terhadap buah fikiran anak-anak.

32. Lambat memberi penghargaan kepada anak-anak.

33. Kerap meleteri sesuatu kesilapan yang dilakukan anak-anak.

34. Hukuman yang tidak setimpal dengan kesalahan yang dilakukan.

35. Sering mengancam dan menakutkan anak-anak.

36. Menghukum tanpa menyatakan kesalahan yang dilakukan.

37. Tidak konsisten dalam menjatuhkan hukuman ke atas anak-anak.

38. Memberi nasihat yang sama kepada anak-anak.

39. Tidak tegas mendidik anak-anak.

40. Tidak menggalakkan anak-anak hidup bekerjasama.

Yes, those are all true. There are reasons behind, but we can't prevent from the outsider and environment influented factors. I think nowadays it will make a lot of differents whether you are staying in a what we called 'high end', 'middle cost' or 'low end' environment.
And, which area or environment do we stay now is depend on how we judge it..

Mintak2 anak2 kita semua dilindungi Allah dan tak termasuk dlm golongan2 org yg dimaksudkan diatas..AMIN..

Saturday, December 27, 2008

Riadah

Even skrg ni aktiviti riadah dah kurang, tp kami still cari masa utk melakukan aktiviti sihat and try to find as much quality time as we could to make sure our kids have their fun times..and of course us too!
We go jogging at either Kelana jaya tasik or Titiwangsa.
N, if any of you all know, now they had re-built a new playground area in the middle of Titiwangsa itself. slighlt far from previous area, but it's bigger, newer but a little bit hot coz not sorrounded by any big trees.



Us..at the new playground area.Alani..penatla tu..dahla dtg dah tegahari..hehe..kesian budak2 ni.

And, actually last night we went there again but at NIGHT, as a compensate from hubby sbb the next night he will be working..(hehe, baiknya abah..)...but, for me i prefer to go at night. It was a windy night and what i most suprprised is a LOT of people there. Not only kids..but youngsters. There have some sort of picnic while playing..no wonder the buai and all those get broken and loose...now I know...aiseh..tak senonoh betulla.




These are some pix taken when we were buying some ikan bilis etc at Teluk Batik, Lumut.Ako tu tgh pegang ketam fridge magnet..besar tu...Alani with opah...but, inila last gambar ngan hat yg comel ini..sbb lepas ambik gambar ni...hat ni tak tahu pegi mana...rasanya alani cabut dan campak...takpela...ni chance nak cari hat baru...hehe


Anak abah? Muka mcm abah ke?Tu opah kat belakang tgh layan ako nak apa agaknya..


And, normally after any activities, we have meal at our certain favorites only(coz hubby ni fussy sikit pasal mkn..hehe)

Gambar ni..ako mkn roti dgn seleranya..sampai tak sedar hidung dah dibalut tepung...dan yg paling menggembirakan ku...dia ambik paper lepas mkn. I mean, tanpa disuruh...dgn automatically, habis mkn..dia bangun, ambik paper(tak terbalik tau..) dan baca(kononla tu..)

Tgkla gayanya tu....bangganya dgn Ako...(ignore kan perasaan bannga seorang ibu ni ye...hehe)


Dan, ini kira aktiviti riadah ke..hehe

Friday, December 26, 2008

Cantiknya..

Our normal activity is pusing shopping complex..hahah..

N, kami memang looking forward nakgi D curve area kalau menjelang krismas. Sbbnya...deconya amat cantik sekali.

Cantikkan...thn ni tema dia hijau..thn lepas lagi cantik rasanya

Alani lepak setelah kepenatan round sight viewing kat Krsimas tree..Ako..skrg ni suka betul possing mcm2 gaya...hehe

Alani terpegun..'I wish I can play with that 'snow'...'

Dan, the next pix is Alani dgn beg Handbag Barney nya...kecik2 pun dah menunjukkan minat pada HANDBAG!! kuang kuang...ni mesti menurun me kan...cute je...

Thursday, December 25, 2008

Body of Lies and Twilight

For the last whole week actually we were alone without kids. Babysitter cuti 2 hari je, tp sbb mcm kami takde cuti, so hantarla balik kg...dan kamipun mengutilizekan dgn menonton wayang.We were lucky coz there's several top movies shown now.

First, kami tgk body of lies. Two main cast were DeCaprio and Russel Crow who were very awesome. I rated it as 4.5stars.Worth to watch. But, because it's more to Muslim terrorism, dont think it deeply ya...just watch it for fun.


And, the next day we watch Twilight. My colleague had suggested us to watch this movie almost every single day(how crazy he is..haha), as he said this is the best romance movie ever throughout this year. And, in the forum also, most of the people watch this movie for more than 1 time. I cant imagine watching the same movie for several times, altho u had other choices is it..But, after I watched it, yes..it's a very fascincating movie. Totally different from another romance movie before. And, the main cast Rob played Edward Cullen was really a VAMPIRE!! haha..u better watch it by today, coz i think today is the last day.

My kids

Aih..dah bersawang blog ni...dah genap 2 minggu me tak jenguk blog ni..sorry la ye kengkawan..tak sempat nak betul2 go thru...sekali imbas je...nasib baikla hari ni cuti krismas..dan me bekerja..tanpa ada bos di ofis.bolehla mengupdate blog ini.

Saje nak cerita pasal pagi td..
Pg td adalah pagi yg amat mencabar for me. Hubby on night shift and kami 3 beranak saje dirumah. Harini me bangun paling awal dr biasa, sbb takut tak berjaya kejut ako, dan taknak tergesa2. Tidopun sebenarnya takla nyenyak sgt. Tidorkan budak2 ni dlm kol 10...dan me pun tidorla sekali. Tp, kol 1 terbangun...memang dah jd mcm kebiasaan skrg ni...mesti tgh mlm terbangun, walaupun my kids semua tido nyenyak.
Dah alang2 terbangun, terus pegi grab thumb drive utk transfer movie TWILIGHT ke laptop. Me dah mcm teraddicted dgn twilight ni. heheh..(cerita pasal twilight ni akan dimuatkan selepas ini).

Dah alang2 transfer, terusla ter tengok.kekkyoku tido balik dlm kol 2. isk isk..tak baiknya utk kulit muka kan...

And, pagi tu bgn ..siapkan semuanya dgn bertenang...dan kejut ako dlm kol 6.55. dan, seperti yg diduga dia taknak bangun..and, taknak jln..nak kena dukungla ni. aiseh...
Dukung ako(tinggalkan alani sorang) bawak masuk kereta(dr tingkat 4 ke basement), bukak a/c and lock pintu. N, lari naik atas balik(dr basement ke tingkat 4), angkat alani dgn beg budak2 dan beg me, bergegas balik ke basement.
Masa sampai kat kereta, ako tgh termenung kat seat depan kereta...dan, dia dgn machonya bukak lock kereta..*good boy..
Tidurkan alani balik kat seat belakang, dan drive bawak ke rumah babysitter.
Sampai rumah babysitter, dukung alani dan pimpin ako(luckily dia nak berjalan) ke rumah babysitter yg juga ditingkat 4.

Lepas tu, bergegas turun balik, drive ke ofis. Legala jugak sbb harini cuti, so jln clear. sampai ofis dlm kol 7.40.

Yg mcm terharunya tu..masa dukung ako..dia ckp :
'ibu, lajunya ibu jalan.'
'ibu nak cepat..takut adik bangun..'
'ibu ni baikla...'(ni yg part mcm nak nangis ni...sob sob)
'sbb ibu sayang ako'..


I love my kids so much....*hug and kiss

Friday, December 12, 2008

RapidKL, Drive, Rush..PENAT

setelah lebih kurang sebulan dan 2 minggu menjalani aktiviti KENALPASTI, KEJAR dan NAIK bas ni bermula, kesimpulan yg me dpt setakat ni :
1-PENAT
2-LETIH

3-lebih bertenang pergi dan balik keje
sbb pagi : hubby hantar, so cuma siapkan beg kids..kalau dulu, kena berperang nak angkut budak2 ni..but, kesian kat hubby la jugak..sbb setiap pagi alani mesti yeyak...huhu...(benda yg paling hubby takkan buat kalau me around...)
balik keje : ambik kete yg hubby dah parked kat tepi jln je(kat lot kedai, so takyah jln kaki jauh)
n terus ambik budak2 tu agak awal..dlm kol 6.15
4-more quality time with the kids including mandikan, mkn kat restoran(ni yg paling pening..), beli groceries...
5-EXERCISE setiap hari sbb jln kaki approx 5 mins dr rumah ke bus stop, 5 mins dr bas ke ofis dan begitula jugak masa balik..so total dlm 1 hari cardio exercisedlm 20 mins. Good for your health.
6-Penat (eh, did I mentioned this earlier)
7-Jimat

But, I think the most critical time is start from next week whereby my hubby will start his NIGHT shift since Monday. 8pm untill 8am. Maksudnya rutin ku akan berubah :
1-Mlm takde hubby around-kami bertiga only..huhuh
2-RUSH rush on every morning kena bgn awal dr biasa..siapkan brg, angkut kids bawak rumah baby sitter dan
3-pegi keje DRIVE.Me kalau boleh nak naik bas la..tp, sbb kalau naik bas, maksudnya kena hantar budak2 ni gi rumah babysitter dlm kol 645AM. isk..mcm tak sempat je..kesian lak nak kacau dia pagi2..Sampai ofis, kena park(RM6 per day).
Masa balik, DRIVE lagi...(dahla jam..huhu), ambik budak2 tu..pegi kedai carik mkn...baru balik rumah.
Mintak2nya bolehla bgn awal lagi..dan hantar budak2 ni pagi..so, takyahla bawak kereta.
Me bukannya confident sgt nak bawak keta gi ofis ni...tak elok utk jantung...heheh..asyik berdebar2 je sepanjang jln...kalau naik bas...even kena berdiri...blh bertenang je..Drive ni gyaku ni, lagi penat!.....dan, no more penjimatan la kan...point terpenting utk naik bas ni

Thursday, December 11, 2008

BZ

aih..lamanya la tak menjenguk blog dan sekaligus mengupdate.
skrg ni mcm bz betulla..mcm2 hal...dlm masa terdekat ni nak kena decide tadika ako..pastu, end of this year nak buat spa(bkn government tu ye..) reunion among my gang.

-Carik tadika ako(tak abis2 lagi..)-
Semlm pegi tgk Q-dees kat puchong jaya..kalau baca kat forum, memang bestla...siap ada swimming class..so, memang complete package utk ako.
but, when it comes to the fee..huh! memang mahal tak ingat.
registration : RM1078- ok, itu normal la kan.
n there are no specific monthly fee as their payment is base on term. so, 1 term(3 mths) is RM1000+.
basic mthly fee is RM210. And actually we can have an option either to pay mthly or termly(recommended). but, utk 3 bln sekali, still kena bayar RM635 (RM210 + books + misc) utk every term.
maksudnya sethn : RM1078 + RM1000x3 = RM4000++.
berbaloi ke ni? dahla mcm jauh dr rumah...

memang mahal mcm ni ke nursery ni? It's still considerable if it's like RM250 mthly and with registration around RM1000, but kalau dah fee mcm ni...aih...berbaloi ke..
nanti bila dah bayar, tgk2 ako malas gi sekolah ke..or, anything can happen rite...mcm membazirnya ribu riban...dahla mcm baru umur 4 thn kan...

Semlm, while discussing about ako's school, terfikir jugak nak hantar for english class only, like smart reader ke...but, sbb biasanya it's meant for weekly..so, mcm takut kami lak yg tak 'terhantar'..maklumla..weekend memang tak pernah lekat kat rumah.

Dan, ada jugak terfikir nak hantar kat Al-Adhwa, more to islamic method sbb ada Iqra'. Unluckily quota dah cukup dan satu lagi sbb they are using Malay language as the medium. takpela..maybe next year...

So, as for the conclusion, me rasa at this moment me nak pilih Angsana tula..mthly RM150 + RM40 transportation. registration fee around RM700, and another few hundreds on June.
okla kan...boleh belajar mandarin sekali..

-Carik SPA-
at this moment nak carik spa yg not in kl area la kot..sbb mostly we all dok kat area puchong, bangi and seremban.n, maybe suru from kedah tu nak turun sama...so, mcm kenala arrange kasik dia ingat sampai bila2..hehe
1-palace of the golden horses..nama spa tak ingat..tp mcm best(sbb harganya pun best kot)
ini je ke setakat ni..hehe..
n, maybe jugak nak try martha tilaar spa kat crown princess sbb me kenal manager dia..Zuraini(yg beli beg coach i tu..huhu).

pencarian diteruskan...

Thursday, December 4, 2008

bu..dah gaji ke belum?

ini first entry for december. dah bersawang blog ni. actually, bukan takleh bukak..cuma skrg ni musim facebook lak...hehe..ketinggalan kot. selama ni mcm malas nak layan...tp, sbb mcm menarik je(dgr dr se'seorang'), tu yg try..dan, biasalah kita ni kalau benda baru..mulala takleh tinggal.
sape yg ada facebook, mehla kita bertukar2 fren..add me @ nuraziani@hotmail.com.

i skrg tgh bz lagi carik playscool utk ako. setakat ni dah 4 dlm senarai...almost tiap petang lepas balik keje ada appt ngan principles playschool. hubby, serahkan 100% kat me utk decide. dan, tak tahula kenapa mcm me ni terlalu memilih sgt kan...takde yg betul2 berkenan dihati.
hopefully by middle of this mth, jawapannya akan ditemui.



dah lama jugak tak update pasal anak2 saya kan...
mereka berdua sgt la aktif dan sihat skrg ni. Alani last few days, tak brp tido mlm..rasanya sbb sakit perut...dan, me pun mcm biasala..tak brp cukup tido..alani ni memang jenis kurang masalah..tidopun nyenyak je...tu yg mcm kalau dia tak tido..risau sgt..
biasanya mlm dia akan bgn biasanya sekali je..dlm kol 3..
'nak nak..'nak nak'...maksudnya nak susu la tu...lepas minum susu..terus campak botol..tido balik...alhamdulillah la dia selalu sihat je..
ako lak..makin lama makin matured.tak dgr ckp tu...perkara biasa la..tp, dah makin cerdik..
hari tu..kami pergi putrajaya..kat depan masjid..adala org main kereta control...pastu, me n hub sembang senyap2..
me : abg, kalau kita beli kereta kontrol..main nagn budak2 ni best jugak kan..boleh main kat titiwangsa...
hub : ok gak tu kan..kita carik tamiya ke...isk..tp, mesti beribu tu..

suddenly out of nowhere...ako menyampuk..
ako : bu, jom kita beli kete kontrol...
me : (aik? bila lak budak ni dengar?) nantila ako...lepas ibu dpt gaji (maklumla tgh bulan..dan, sebenarnya niat tu br dlm 30%, belum betul2 pun..tu yg mcm malas nak masuk dlm senarai..)
ako : ibu belum gaji ke? kenapa ibu belum dpt gaji?
ibu : (isk..tahula pulak pasal gaji budak ni...) belum...boss ibu belum kasik lagi...sbb tula ibu kena keje...ako selalu tak kasik ibu keje...kalau ibu tak gi keje, nanti bos tak kasik duit, camne nak beli brg ako...
ako : yela..

perbualan tu habis la kat situ...ìngat kot dia lupa la..
lepas tu, setiap kali balik keje..ako mesti tanya
'ibu dah dpt gaji ke?'
if me asked why? sambil senyum2 dia ckp..ako nak beli kereta kontrol....

aduhai...susahnya la budak ni...
dan, actually kami dah belikan dia kereta kontrol...ada dlm above pix tu...
but, yg tak bestnya sampai harini..(even dah berminggu gaji masuk..dan dah belipun brg mainan dia..)ako still tanya lagi...
bu, dah gaji ke? boss ibu dah bg duit ke?

hhehehe..budak2...takleh janji2 ni..