Wednesday, December 31, 2008

Farewell 2008, Welcome 2009

Akhirnya 2008 dah hampir menutup tirai. Bila tgk semua org buat konklusi utk kisah hidup masing2...me pun nak senaraikan my successed thingy that me can proud of to.

1-LOSS WEIGHT!!! ni part yg paling best. Kiranya hampir2 nak dpt berat ideal(lg 2kg exactly to shed off but...mcm dah malas sikit..tu yg relax je..maintain je...).
My dad yg never mentioned anything about my weight or size or anything...biasala kan dad...kan lebih byk diam je...but, recently dia ada tegur..
abah : yani ni makin kecik ye..mkn hati ke?
me : kakakak...isk abah ni..yani memang kontrol mkn sikit..
abah : jgnla kurus sgt..abah suka kalau anak2 abah...berisi sikit...abah tgkpun mcm kenyang je...(hehe...nampak kenyang??)..senang je abah tgk...
me : ala abah...yani ok..cuma mcm kalau kurus sikit..takdela sakit.kan elok..takdela sakit nanti...
abah : hahha

2-be independent(can drive to the office and manage the kids alone)
eversince I go to office with my husband and never foot on the pedal again, I was very scared to drive alone again esp to office in the middle of KL. I was afraid not only to the massive traffic jam, but also to scretch my hubby's car.
But since recently my hubby start working on shift I have to handle my kids which is very awesome for myself also and driving to the office.
*big grin*

3-send Ako to school
I made many plans on Ako educations.
-to send him to nursery start from 4. just to have him to get adopt to social environment, and of course not to push him to learn hard.
-to have him to learn English in a proper way with proper accent either in American or British. but, I think Ako is more to British accent*thanks to Thomas and frens*
me, my self dont learn English in a proper way, and because I use jap language as my 2nd lang rather than English, and it makes me now learning back English start from the beginning. It's not easy you know as our brain also not as fresh as the kids..haha.

And, as on the weekend I managed to registered school and bought all the stuffs for Ako, I feel so relief altho it cost about more than RM1K!! Atleast I was successed to finished the task..

At this moment, I think this is what I can remember. If me have others in my mind, will update later.

WELCOME 2009!!
My target for this new year :

1-Penyabar...
2-Rajin (target nak habiskan tong gas yg dah 3 thn kat rumah tak habis2 tu..hhaha)
3-Buy a new house
4-Shed another 2,3 kgs...
5-Berjimat cermat aka tambahkan saving
6-Nak contribute more to both parents aka jadi anak berguna la...(aiseh, skrg ni mcmla anak kurang berguna ek...haha..nak contirbute MORE and MORE) barula rezeki tu berkat kan...

oo..cerita pasal contribution to parents ni...saje nak share infos..
for me, if I compared when I give money to my parents to not...
RM0 -> You will feel more like dont have anough money to spend. And, of course feel guilty...
RMxxx -> Of course relief and somehow manage to get everything you plan..
Maybe it's KEBERKATAN...(kaf ba ro kaf ta nun...selingan dr drama dunia baru...hehe)

7-Become more gorgeous..huhu

These are all came across in my mind...maybe we can add it more later...after me have the Jojoba SPA session..hehe...will update about it later...(actually now I'm at the KL sentral waiting for my frens to gather and go to Berjaya....can't wait....huhuhu)

Tuesday, December 30, 2008

Kesilapan ibu bapa

Sometimes we never thought any kids behaviour come from our mistakes. And, maybe sometimes we do realized, but no initiative to improve ourselves?Or, maybe sometimes we are stressed so that we can't even managed our anger?
Which one is the reason, is depend on us...just we are the one who know ourselves better.

I found an article on WHY our kids jadik liar and not controllable by their parents.
It's a very informative articles to review.

Pakar motivasi dan psikiatri sering mencari punca mengapa anak-anak menjadi liar, tidak mendengar kata, melawan orang tua dan pelbagai salah laku oleh segelintir anak-anak terhadap kedua ibu bapa mereka.

Dalam mendidik anak, mungkin cara ibu bapa salah. Dalam proses tumbesarannya, anak-anak pasti melalui pelbagai perkara yang mungkin boleh membuat mereka terdorong melakukan sesuatu di luar jangkaan.

Apabila melihat kelakuan anak-anak itu, semestinya ia dikaitkan dengan cara didikan ibu bapa.Justeru, mari kita selidik kesilapan ibu bapa sehingga menyebabkan kesan negatif anak-anak.

Antaranya:

1. Pemilihan jodoh tanpa memperhitungkan mengenai zuriat.

2. Perhubungan suami isteri tanpa memperhitungkan mengenai zuriat.

3. Kurang berlemah lembut terhadap anak-anak.

4. Memaki hamun sebagai cara menegur kesilapan anak-anak.

5. Tidak berusaha mempelbagaikan makanan yang disajikan kepada anak-anak.

6. Jarang bersama anak-anak sewaktu mereka sedang makan.

7. Melahirkan suasana yang kurang seronok ketika makan.

8. Membeza-bezakan kasih sayang terhadap anak-anak.

9. Kurang melahirkan kasih sayang.

10. Sering mengeluh di hadapan anak-anak.

11. Tidak meraikan anak-anak ketika mereka pergi dan pulang dari sekolah.

12. Tidak mengenalkan anak-anak dengan konsep keadilan.

13. Tidak memberatkan pendidikan agama di kalangan anak-anak.

14. Tidak terlibat dengan urusan pelajaran anak-anak.

15. Tidak memprogramkan masa rehat dan riadah anak-anak.

16. Tidak menggalakkan dan menyediakan suasana suka membaca.

17. Mengizinkan anak-anak menjamah makanan dan minuman yang tidak halal.

18. Tidak menunjukkan contoh teladan yang baik di hadapan anak-anak.

19. Jarang meluangkan masa untuk bergurau senda dengan anak-anak.

20. Terdapat jurang komunikasi di antara ibu bapa dengan anak-anak.

21. Tidak menggunakan bahasa yang betul.

22. Suka bertengkar di hadapan anak-anak.

23. Sentiasa menunjukkan muka masam di hadapan anak-anak.

24. Tidak membimbing anak-anak supaya mematuhi syariat.

25. Memberi kebebasan yang berlebihan kepada anak-anak.

26. Terlalu mengongkong kebebasan anak-anak.

27. Tidak menunaikan janji yang dibuat terhadap anak-anak.

28. Tidak menunjukkan minat terhadap aktiviti anak-anak.

29. Tidak memupuk semangat membaca di kalangan anak-anak.

30. Tidak berminat melayan pertanyaan atau kemusykilan anak-anak.

31. Tidak memberi perhatian terhadap buah fikiran anak-anak.

32. Lambat memberi penghargaan kepada anak-anak.

33. Kerap meleteri sesuatu kesilapan yang dilakukan anak-anak.

34. Hukuman yang tidak setimpal dengan kesalahan yang dilakukan.

35. Sering mengancam dan menakutkan anak-anak.

36. Menghukum tanpa menyatakan kesalahan yang dilakukan.

37. Tidak konsisten dalam menjatuhkan hukuman ke atas anak-anak.

38. Memberi nasihat yang sama kepada anak-anak.

39. Tidak tegas mendidik anak-anak.

40. Tidak menggalakkan anak-anak hidup bekerjasama.

Yes, those are all true. There are reasons behind, but we can't prevent from the outsider and environment influented factors. I think nowadays it will make a lot of differents whether you are staying in a what we called 'high end', 'middle cost' or 'low end' environment.
And, which area or environment do we stay now is depend on how we judge it..

Mintak2 anak2 kita semua dilindungi Allah dan tak termasuk dlm golongan2 org yg dimaksudkan diatas..AMIN..

Saturday, December 27, 2008

Riadah

Even skrg ni aktiviti riadah dah kurang, tp kami still cari masa utk melakukan aktiviti sihat and try to find as much quality time as we could to make sure our kids have their fun times..and of course us too!
We go jogging at either Kelana jaya tasik or Titiwangsa.
N, if any of you all know, now they had re-built a new playground area in the middle of Titiwangsa itself. slighlt far from previous area, but it's bigger, newer but a little bit hot coz not sorrounded by any big trees.



Us..at the new playground area.Alani..penatla tu..dahla dtg dah tegahari..hehe..kesian budak2 ni.

And, actually last night we went there again but at NIGHT, as a compensate from hubby sbb the next night he will be working..(hehe, baiknya abah..)...but, for me i prefer to go at night. It was a windy night and what i most suprprised is a LOT of people there. Not only kids..but youngsters. There have some sort of picnic while playing..no wonder the buai and all those get broken and loose...now I know...aiseh..tak senonoh betulla.




These are some pix taken when we were buying some ikan bilis etc at Teluk Batik, Lumut.Ako tu tgh pegang ketam fridge magnet..besar tu...Alani with opah...but, inila last gambar ngan hat yg comel ini..sbb lepas ambik gambar ni...hat ni tak tahu pegi mana...rasanya alani cabut dan campak...takpela...ni chance nak cari hat baru...hehe


Anak abah? Muka mcm abah ke?Tu opah kat belakang tgh layan ako nak apa agaknya..


And, normally after any activities, we have meal at our certain favorites only(coz hubby ni fussy sikit pasal mkn..hehe)

Gambar ni..ako mkn roti dgn seleranya..sampai tak sedar hidung dah dibalut tepung...dan yg paling menggembirakan ku...dia ambik paper lepas mkn. I mean, tanpa disuruh...dgn automatically, habis mkn..dia bangun, ambik paper(tak terbalik tau..) dan baca(kononla tu..)

Tgkla gayanya tu....bangganya dgn Ako...(ignore kan perasaan bannga seorang ibu ni ye...hehe)


Dan, ini kira aktiviti riadah ke..hehe

Friday, December 26, 2008

Cantiknya..

Our normal activity is pusing shopping complex..hahah..

N, kami memang looking forward nakgi D curve area kalau menjelang krismas. Sbbnya...deconya amat cantik sekali.

Cantikkan...thn ni tema dia hijau..thn lepas lagi cantik rasanya

Alani lepak setelah kepenatan round sight viewing kat Krsimas tree..Ako..skrg ni suka betul possing mcm2 gaya...hehe

Alani terpegun..'I wish I can play with that 'snow'...'

Dan, the next pix is Alani dgn beg Handbag Barney nya...kecik2 pun dah menunjukkan minat pada HANDBAG!! kuang kuang...ni mesti menurun me kan...cute je...

Thursday, December 25, 2008

Body of Lies and Twilight

For the last whole week actually we were alone without kids. Babysitter cuti 2 hari je, tp sbb mcm kami takde cuti, so hantarla balik kg...dan kamipun mengutilizekan dgn menonton wayang.We were lucky coz there's several top movies shown now.

First, kami tgk body of lies. Two main cast were DeCaprio and Russel Crow who were very awesome. I rated it as 4.5stars.Worth to watch. But, because it's more to Muslim terrorism, dont think it deeply ya...just watch it for fun.


And, the next day we watch Twilight. My colleague had suggested us to watch this movie almost every single day(how crazy he is..haha), as he said this is the best romance movie ever throughout this year. And, in the forum also, most of the people watch this movie for more than 1 time. I cant imagine watching the same movie for several times, altho u had other choices is it..But, after I watched it, yes..it's a very fascincating movie. Totally different from another romance movie before. And, the main cast Rob played Edward Cullen was really a VAMPIRE!! haha..u better watch it by today, coz i think today is the last day.

My kids

Aih..dah bersawang blog ni...dah genap 2 minggu me tak jenguk blog ni..sorry la ye kengkawan..tak sempat nak betul2 go thru...sekali imbas je...nasib baikla hari ni cuti krismas..dan me bekerja..tanpa ada bos di ofis.bolehla mengupdate blog ini.

Saje nak cerita pasal pagi td..
Pg td adalah pagi yg amat mencabar for me. Hubby on night shift and kami 3 beranak saje dirumah. Harini me bangun paling awal dr biasa, sbb takut tak berjaya kejut ako, dan taknak tergesa2. Tidopun sebenarnya takla nyenyak sgt. Tidorkan budak2 ni dlm kol 10...dan me pun tidorla sekali. Tp, kol 1 terbangun...memang dah jd mcm kebiasaan skrg ni...mesti tgh mlm terbangun, walaupun my kids semua tido nyenyak.
Dah alang2 terbangun, terus pegi grab thumb drive utk transfer movie TWILIGHT ke laptop. Me dah mcm teraddicted dgn twilight ni. heheh..(cerita pasal twilight ni akan dimuatkan selepas ini).

Dah alang2 transfer, terusla ter tengok.kekkyoku tido balik dlm kol 2. isk isk..tak baiknya utk kulit muka kan...

And, pagi tu bgn ..siapkan semuanya dgn bertenang...dan kejut ako dlm kol 6.55. dan, seperti yg diduga dia taknak bangun..and, taknak jln..nak kena dukungla ni. aiseh...
Dukung ako(tinggalkan alani sorang) bawak masuk kereta(dr tingkat 4 ke basement), bukak a/c and lock pintu. N, lari naik atas balik(dr basement ke tingkat 4), angkat alani dgn beg budak2 dan beg me, bergegas balik ke basement.
Masa sampai kat kereta, ako tgh termenung kat seat depan kereta...dan, dia dgn machonya bukak lock kereta..*good boy..
Tidurkan alani balik kat seat belakang, dan drive bawak ke rumah babysitter.
Sampai rumah babysitter, dukung alani dan pimpin ako(luckily dia nak berjalan) ke rumah babysitter yg juga ditingkat 4.

Lepas tu, bergegas turun balik, drive ke ofis. Legala jugak sbb harini cuti, so jln clear. sampai ofis dlm kol 7.40.

Yg mcm terharunya tu..masa dukung ako..dia ckp :
'ibu, lajunya ibu jalan.'
'ibu nak cepat..takut adik bangun..'
'ibu ni baikla...'(ni yg part mcm nak nangis ni...sob sob)
'sbb ibu sayang ako'..


I love my kids so much....*hug and kiss

Friday, December 12, 2008

RapidKL, Drive, Rush..PENAT

setelah lebih kurang sebulan dan 2 minggu menjalani aktiviti KENALPASTI, KEJAR dan NAIK bas ni bermula, kesimpulan yg me dpt setakat ni :
1-PENAT
2-LETIH

3-lebih bertenang pergi dan balik keje
sbb pagi : hubby hantar, so cuma siapkan beg kids..kalau dulu, kena berperang nak angkut budak2 ni..but, kesian kat hubby la jugak..sbb setiap pagi alani mesti yeyak...huhu...(benda yg paling hubby takkan buat kalau me around...)
balik keje : ambik kete yg hubby dah parked kat tepi jln je(kat lot kedai, so takyah jln kaki jauh)
n terus ambik budak2 tu agak awal..dlm kol 6.15
4-more quality time with the kids including mandikan, mkn kat restoran(ni yg paling pening..), beli groceries...
5-EXERCISE setiap hari sbb jln kaki approx 5 mins dr rumah ke bus stop, 5 mins dr bas ke ofis dan begitula jugak masa balik..so total dlm 1 hari cardio exercisedlm 20 mins. Good for your health.
6-Penat (eh, did I mentioned this earlier)
7-Jimat

But, I think the most critical time is start from next week whereby my hubby will start his NIGHT shift since Monday. 8pm untill 8am. Maksudnya rutin ku akan berubah :
1-Mlm takde hubby around-kami bertiga only..huhuh
2-RUSH rush on every morning kena bgn awal dr biasa..siapkan brg, angkut kids bawak rumah baby sitter dan
3-pegi keje DRIVE.Me kalau boleh nak naik bas la..tp, sbb kalau naik bas, maksudnya kena hantar budak2 ni gi rumah babysitter dlm kol 645AM. isk..mcm tak sempat je..kesian lak nak kacau dia pagi2..Sampai ofis, kena park(RM6 per day).
Masa balik, DRIVE lagi...(dahla jam..huhu), ambik budak2 tu..pegi kedai carik mkn...baru balik rumah.
Mintak2nya bolehla bgn awal lagi..dan hantar budak2 ni pagi..so, takyahla bawak kereta.
Me bukannya confident sgt nak bawak keta gi ofis ni...tak elok utk jantung...heheh..asyik berdebar2 je sepanjang jln...kalau naik bas...even kena berdiri...blh bertenang je..Drive ni gyaku ni, lagi penat!.....dan, no more penjimatan la kan...point terpenting utk naik bas ni

Thursday, December 11, 2008

BZ

aih..lamanya la tak menjenguk blog dan sekaligus mengupdate.
skrg ni mcm bz betulla..mcm2 hal...dlm masa terdekat ni nak kena decide tadika ako..pastu, end of this year nak buat spa(bkn government tu ye..) reunion among my gang.

-Carik tadika ako(tak abis2 lagi..)-
Semlm pegi tgk Q-dees kat puchong jaya..kalau baca kat forum, memang bestla...siap ada swimming class..so, memang complete package utk ako.
but, when it comes to the fee..huh! memang mahal tak ingat.
registration : RM1078- ok, itu normal la kan.
n there are no specific monthly fee as their payment is base on term. so, 1 term(3 mths) is RM1000+.
basic mthly fee is RM210. And actually we can have an option either to pay mthly or termly(recommended). but, utk 3 bln sekali, still kena bayar RM635 (RM210 + books + misc) utk every term.
maksudnya sethn : RM1078 + RM1000x3 = RM4000++.
berbaloi ke ni? dahla mcm jauh dr rumah...

memang mahal mcm ni ke nursery ni? It's still considerable if it's like RM250 mthly and with registration around RM1000, but kalau dah fee mcm ni...aih...berbaloi ke..
nanti bila dah bayar, tgk2 ako malas gi sekolah ke..or, anything can happen rite...mcm membazirnya ribu riban...dahla mcm baru umur 4 thn kan...

Semlm, while discussing about ako's school, terfikir jugak nak hantar for english class only, like smart reader ke...but, sbb biasanya it's meant for weekly..so, mcm takut kami lak yg tak 'terhantar'..maklumla..weekend memang tak pernah lekat kat rumah.

Dan, ada jugak terfikir nak hantar kat Al-Adhwa, more to islamic method sbb ada Iqra'. Unluckily quota dah cukup dan satu lagi sbb they are using Malay language as the medium. takpela..maybe next year...

So, as for the conclusion, me rasa at this moment me nak pilih Angsana tula..mthly RM150 + RM40 transportation. registration fee around RM700, and another few hundreds on June.
okla kan...boleh belajar mandarin sekali..

-Carik SPA-
at this moment nak carik spa yg not in kl area la kot..sbb mostly we all dok kat area puchong, bangi and seremban.n, maybe suru from kedah tu nak turun sama...so, mcm kenala arrange kasik dia ingat sampai bila2..hehe
1-palace of the golden horses..nama spa tak ingat..tp mcm best(sbb harganya pun best kot)
ini je ke setakat ni..hehe..
n, maybe jugak nak try martha tilaar spa kat crown princess sbb me kenal manager dia..Zuraini(yg beli beg coach i tu..huhu).

pencarian diteruskan...

Thursday, December 4, 2008

bu..dah gaji ke belum?

ini first entry for december. dah bersawang blog ni. actually, bukan takleh bukak..cuma skrg ni musim facebook lak...hehe..ketinggalan kot. selama ni mcm malas nak layan...tp, sbb mcm menarik je(dgr dr se'seorang'), tu yg try..dan, biasalah kita ni kalau benda baru..mulala takleh tinggal.
sape yg ada facebook, mehla kita bertukar2 fren..add me @ nuraziani@hotmail.com.

i skrg tgh bz lagi carik playscool utk ako. setakat ni dah 4 dlm senarai...almost tiap petang lepas balik keje ada appt ngan principles playschool. hubby, serahkan 100% kat me utk decide. dan, tak tahula kenapa mcm me ni terlalu memilih sgt kan...takde yg betul2 berkenan dihati.
hopefully by middle of this mth, jawapannya akan ditemui.



dah lama jugak tak update pasal anak2 saya kan...
mereka berdua sgt la aktif dan sihat skrg ni. Alani last few days, tak brp tido mlm..rasanya sbb sakit perut...dan, me pun mcm biasala..tak brp cukup tido..alani ni memang jenis kurang masalah..tidopun nyenyak je...tu yg mcm kalau dia tak tido..risau sgt..
biasanya mlm dia akan bgn biasanya sekali je..dlm kol 3..
'nak nak..'nak nak'...maksudnya nak susu la tu...lepas minum susu..terus campak botol..tido balik...alhamdulillah la dia selalu sihat je..
ako lak..makin lama makin matured.tak dgr ckp tu...perkara biasa la..tp, dah makin cerdik..
hari tu..kami pergi putrajaya..kat depan masjid..adala org main kereta control...pastu, me n hub sembang senyap2..
me : abg, kalau kita beli kereta kontrol..main nagn budak2 ni best jugak kan..boleh main kat titiwangsa...
hub : ok gak tu kan..kita carik tamiya ke...isk..tp, mesti beribu tu..

suddenly out of nowhere...ako menyampuk..
ako : bu, jom kita beli kete kontrol...
me : (aik? bila lak budak ni dengar?) nantila ako...lepas ibu dpt gaji (maklumla tgh bulan..dan, sebenarnya niat tu br dlm 30%, belum betul2 pun..tu yg mcm malas nak masuk dlm senarai..)
ako : ibu belum gaji ke? kenapa ibu belum dpt gaji?
ibu : (isk..tahula pulak pasal gaji budak ni...) belum...boss ibu belum kasik lagi...sbb tula ibu kena keje...ako selalu tak kasik ibu keje...kalau ibu tak gi keje, nanti bos tak kasik duit, camne nak beli brg ako...
ako : yela..

perbualan tu habis la kat situ...ìngat kot dia lupa la..
lepas tu, setiap kali balik keje..ako mesti tanya
'ibu dah dpt gaji ke?'
if me asked why? sambil senyum2 dia ckp..ako nak beli kereta kontrol....

aduhai...susahnya la budak ni...
dan, actually kami dah belikan dia kereta kontrol...ada dlm above pix tu...
but, yg tak bestnya sampai harini..(even dah berminggu gaji masuk..dan dah belipun brg mainan dia..)ako still tanya lagi...
bu, dah gaji ke? boss ibu dah bg duit ke?

hhehehe..budak2...takleh janji2 ni..

Tuesday, November 25, 2008

Beezland or Angsana

I am looking for a kindergarten or is it playschool..hmm...whatever it is..for Ako next year(just another 1 mth)..memangla rasa mcm sepatutnya dah daftar..sbb my babysitter ckp..jiran2 dia semua dah daftar..oo...is it? is that fast? seriuosly tak tahu nak hantar mana lagi ni...memula memang my interest cuma Beezland with Montessori konsep...betul2 tepi jln on d way nak hantar my childs to the babysitter's.
But, suddenly my babysitter la yg suggestkan why not Angsana? hah...Angsana? never heard pun...she explained that it use chinese method(not really sure) so the child will learn chinese plus english la of course.
Most of their neighbours semua hantar kat situ sbb mcm reasonable interm of school fee..
Plus, the teacher will fetch and drop the childs by themselves. N, there's a close frens of her yg hantar anak situ, so mcm senang boleh monitor sekali..
So mcm more convenient and safe and ada gangla...but, as for the Beezland tupun, mcm tu gak..as what their explained to me.

Let's compare these 2.

Beezland
1-Montessori consept (ni la yg i dok adored sgt..sbb mcm nak tgk effect pd Ako)
2-RM250 permth
3-RM800 for registration and plus RM400(don't remember) on June
4-Sekolah cantik...clean(sbb in a new housing area with safety guards), but it's along the mainroad maybe not so safe...hmm...
5-Food provided (cooked by Indonesian)
6-The name..mcm best je...keke (namapun penting kan...)

Angsana
1-Chinese education consept maybe more to maths
2-RM140 permth
3-RM700 for registration
4-School itself at the quite old housing area...no guards, but the area was quite safe which is right infront of the playground,perhaps more space for child to play
5-Food maybe provided now...
6-The name is more like a shoppingmall kat rumah MIL je..Ako siap ckp...poyo la angsana ni ibu..kekek

So, what do u all think? It's like more to my interest...tp, yela kan..mestila interest kita...hehe..
anyone yg ada anak pernah hantar montessori? how do u find it? is that as good as their brand? or, is it depend on the school teacher itself? hmm...for me, budget is not d most priority, but d quality..
but, they(babysitter n her frens) said..ala...sekolah budak main2 je...buat apa mahal2...

Any idea?

Sunday, November 23, 2008

U60, U69, U70

ni semua nombor2 bas rapidKL yg perlu me tunggu pagi nakgi keje skrg. aah....skrg gi keje naik BAS!!! hahah..mcm tak percaya je kan..tp, itula rutin harian kami(termasuk hubby sekali) semenjak seminggu lepas. kiranya dah 5 harila dok jadi mcm indonesian, bangladeshian(betul ke ni..?) dan pekerja2 buruh lain yg korang selalu nampak naik bas tu..ramai jugak sebenarnya malaysian dlm tu, cuma mcm kurang menyerlah kot..
my hubby dah start keje shift yg tak menentu...so, kalau dia keje mid-shift, pagi me keluar awal..naik bas..dia hantar budak2 gi rumah babysitter naik kereta..park kereta balik rumah..dan, balik kang i ambik kereta ambik budak2..pastu bawak balik rumah.

luckily, i cuma naik bas depan rumah, dan berhenti kat kl sentral...1 bas je dan menapak cuma dlm 5 min jela...so, kira not bad la kan..cuma, mcm sardin!! huh...penuhnya tak ingat...kena cium bau ketiak masam pekerja2 foreigner la..kena berlaga2 ngan sape2 tah...

ok..me nak senaraikan pro and cons nya naik kenderaan awam ni ek..
kita tgk cons dulu :
1-PACK mcm sardin so kena tahan hidungla..
2-tak tentu masa..kekadang lambat esp cuti sekolah ni...n, kekadang dia kurangkan bil bas...so, jd lagi la ramai org
3-terhoyong hayang sbb traffic kat kl ni faham2 la..dahla lalu jln klang lama....jam tak ingat...tp, sbb bas ada lorong sendiri..so, sepatutnya tak la jam sgt
p/s : kepada pemandu2..jgn lalu kat lorong bas ye..lepas ni..sbb lepas ni ada org akan update dlm blog(mcm saya ni) dan tulis plet number kereta yg kacau laluan bas...keke

pro
1-JIMAT sgt2...
meh kita itemizedkan :
i-sehari transportation cost : RM2 sahaja (read: sehari) maksudnya boleh pakai tiket yg sama utk balik nanti....(seminggu RM10 per person)
ii-no petrol cost--yellek!! langsung tak topup minyak minggu lepas...hoorey!!(jimat RM100 perweek-lepas minyak turun kpd RM2.00 perlittre)
iii-no tol cost--yellek!! bila jln semlm..n, lalu tol..tgk balance tak berganjank..hoorey!!(jimatRM30 per week)
kiranya penjimatan utk seminggu : RM110
so, utk sebulan = RM400+ dan, kurangla kekerapan servis kereta..maksudnya...duit yg jimat ini..bolehla kita gunakan utk....haahaha ni part yg best ni..
1-VACATION
2-SHOPPING
3-SEKOLAH AKO THN DEPAN NI... dan juga utk swimming, piano, taekwando lessons...semua tu still dlm perancangan..tgh survey
2-Ako Alani boleh tido lama sikitla...

kiranya pro yg cuma 2 items, tp bolehla cover utk semua keburukan2 itu....
kawan2 doakan la supaya kami terus tabah utk hadapi semua keburukan tu ya..
amiin..

Best blogger award




Thx again to Arnie utk award ni...nampaknya musim award dah kembali lagi...
even not la deserve sgt..tp, yg penting ingatan kan...
so, I nak pass this award to :

Miszrlina
Kak Tirana
Yani Yusuf
Shafa
Sadi
Ninies
Azian Hariri
Tun Fatimah
Cintamiloais

Cheers and peace!!

Friday, November 21, 2008

The Pink Sisterhood's Tag



Arnie, thx for your tagged..it's been quite a long time me didn't complete any tag from others...sorry ya guys..sometimes can't even manage to view your's blogs and comments...curi2 je selalunya.


But, luckily this tag only to paste pix..so, here I am...
actually not sure from which part I need to paste..but since the message about the breast cancer is very much helpful, so I'm pasting it from the awareness part..

This one is all about breast cancer, which everyone knows is one of the most life-threatening diseases today. I’m doing my part in spreading awareness on breast cancer by sharing some scary yet so very true facts on breast cancer. Ladies, do take note!

* One in eight women or 12.6% of all women will get breast cancer in her lifetime.

* Breast cancer risk increases with age and every woman is at risk.

* Every 13 minutes a woman dies of breast cancer.

* Seventy-seven percent of women with breast cancer are over 50.

* Breast cancer is the leading cause of cancer death in women between the ages of 15 and 54, and the second cause of cancer death in women 55 to 74.

* Risks for breast cancer include a family history, atypical hyperplasia, early menstruation (before age 12), late menopause (after age 55), current use or use in the last ten years of oral contraceptives, and daily consumption of alcohol.

* Early detection of breast cancer, through monthly breast self-exam and particularly yearly mammography after age 40, offers the best chance for survival.

Above facts taken from Women’s Health Organisation Forum.

And now here is the tag and the rules:
1. Put the logo in your blog.
2. Add a link to the person who shared it with you.
3. Nominate at least 7 other blogs (sorry ya Arnie...can't fulfil this part..)
4. Leave a message for your nominee on their blog.

oppss....in conjunction of this...let me share my health awareness...

LADIES and whoever out there, please be extra cautious of your daily consuming ya...and exercise a lot!!

Cheers..

Wednesday, November 19, 2008

Getronics Annual Dinner

Sepanjang 6 thn kerja, ni baru kali kedua pegi Annual dinner. Our dinner theme was 'Magical night'..Altho company ni takla besar mana, tapi wow..semua org mcm nakgi anugerah skrin gak..haha...dan, the party was well organized..with the prizes of lucky draw...lucky jugakla me...dpt hairdryer...lupa nak ambik gambar...then, my other 2 collegues they got LCD TV 32' and DELL laptop!! awesome rite...walla...kenapala tak me yg menang grand prize tu..

Yg bestnya, i drove alone left the kids with my hubby!! haha..bkn senang nak dpt chance mcm ni...dahla balik rumah lepas midnight....12.30am..thank you so much hubby!!

Me won hairdryer for lucky draw...



Presentation from NXP team...flying carpet..won the presentation...best giler..lawak IT!! haha..n, the right pix is the dance by the hotel...cuba teka...yg tengah tu laki ke..pompuan??



Some of the food..overall the food was not so okla...only few je selection...tp, deserts was ok.

me and Jen, me and Pri as Harry Potter...and my prize!

Our team..

Grant Beatton

Last week few big bosses dtg office. Bob Dion our Program manager-he's a Canadian...boleh dikatakan tak faham langsung dia ckp...mumbling...hehe..sian dia..buat lawak, takde org gelak.. and d other is our Incident manager, Grant Beatton.
We had a training, and it was very helpful esp utk new comer..and,luckily the bos yg trained kitorang tu sporting habis. Memula tu punyala susah nak faham dia ckp..u know Australian...kangaro..haha..but, bila dah masuk hari kedua...barula leh copup, dah boleh gelak sama2 ngan dia...thank so much Grant Beatton!! you rock!! haha...lebih2 lak..

Jennifer, me, Grant and Pong. Right pix : us at Centro having dinner..food was yummilicious!



The bold man beside me is Bob Dion. And, yg paling right dlm gambar kiri tu, my team lead, Sumal. Right pix : Malar, me and Jen.

Monday, November 10, 2008

Alani dah boleh jalan akhirnya


Tunjuk gigi Alani...hehe..

My angels...Ako n me..(tudung baru beli ni...ok tak?)


Ako dan abah...kalau kasik dia jalan sorang2, jawabnya memang teggelam la dlm kolam ni..

Alani dah boleh jalan officially semlm, masa umur 1 thn, 1 bln dan 2 minggu.
We were first time went to d Gardens and it was so so OK la..but, I think for me it's more comfortable to have a walk at Pavilion. Masa tula..Alani dah start mcm tak dok diam.... hehhe...penat jgn ckpla...nak ikut dia kat tpt mcm tu...dgn org ramainya..dgn nak bawak stroller, barang lagi..
Langsung taknak dukung..taknak dok dlm stroller, taknak dok dlm babychair.
Teruja betul ibu dan abahnya...abg Akonya..mcm jeles pun ada..hehe...

Mlm tu lepas balik, ingat nak tidokan budak2 ni awal...sbb nak baiki desktop my babysitter(jd technician lak..hehe)...tak tido awal jugakpun...
Alani suddenly bangun..pastu gelak sorang2...rupanya dia dah dpt skill baru...pusing2!!
dia pegang sofa, lepas tangan..pusing 1 round then pegang balik sofa...lepas tu..terus jln dari dapur...ke bilik...sambil break kejap..pusing...jalan lagi...huh! memang start from nowon, busyla kami mengejar si kenit ni..gambar si cute ni, nanti ek...

Wednesday, November 5, 2008

My sale blog updated

Hi guys...my sale blog was updated...please visit ye..

Tuesday, November 4, 2008

Shopping tudung..

This topic is in conjunction with my previous topic yg mcm stress sgt tu.hehe...thx kpd teman2 yg sentiasa bg semangat dan prihatin...
N, as per advised by one of my good friend...shopping!! ahha-- memang dah lama diamalkan tu..cuma mcm skrg tak aktif online shopping so mcm terhad sikitla nak tahu perkembangan semasa pasal latest2 fashion ni.
But, lately suka tol teman(guna bahasa perak lak...hehe) beli pelbagai jenis tudung.
Tudung dubai, tudung yg ala2 munawarah dan ada la lain..tp, tak tahu nama dia.
Gambar sendiri..tak ambikla...tp, nak try cari jap..sample.
Mcm kat bawah ni...tp, kaler lain sikit..nampak mcm sama je kan...tp lain2 semua tu...
yg first tu...jenis sarung terus..teman dah ada dlm 2, tp yg ni hubby tak brp suka sbb nampak mcm indonesian sikit...ala...tak kisahla kan...yg penting tak yah iron..takyah pakai brooch.
Pastu yg tgh tu...ada dlm pix raya teman kaler purple..awning keras sikit..kelakar je kan panggil awning. dan yg last sekali tu setakat ni teman paling suka. Awning dia kain lembut, dan lilit2 2 kali terus selit bawah dagu. takyah nak pakai pin/brooch.
Pastu semlm baru beli lagi satu...jenis sarung jugak, cuma dia ada anak tudung 2 kaler...yg ni takde gambar la...nantila balik kang try ambik gambar sendiri..(kalau sempat la..)
And, dulu asyik nak cari tudung bawal je sbb senang pakai..dan tahan lama. But, skrg ni mcm dah best lak try mcm2 tudung dan try mcm2 cara pemakaian tudung even tudung yg sama...
hm...susah nak explain kan...but, nak ambik gambar..selalu takde kesempatan...sbb bila dah siap..nak kena dukung alani..tak sempat nak grab kamera...

Kengkawan pun tryla...mesti suka. Senang sekali dong. Tidak perlu di ironi(betul ke ni..hehe), tidak perlu di jaga terlalu rapi kerana tiada aksesori tambahan, tidak perlu memikirkan brooch mana nak dipakai dan paling penting tidak tercalar dimuka anak2 yg didukung....adios!!

p/s : lupa nak mention harga...semua ni dlm range RM18-50. Ok la kan...*wink*

Monday, November 3, 2008

-no tittle-(malas nak fikir..)

today no specific tittle utk entry ni. kira mcm luahan perasaan je.recently hidup rasa mcm tak berapa menarik...maybe sbb :
1-PMS...

2-environment baru..
so, mcm takde gang.selalu mkn sorang skrg...isk isk...mcm sabishi nya...takdela nak salahkan sesapa, cumamcm kalau nak tapau, pun nak kena kuar jugak...so, dah alang2 dah kuar...mkn terusla...dahla mcm kat mesia ni, memang very hard nak tgk org mkn sorang kan..even lelaki. kalau kat nihon dulu, lantakla nak mkn sorang ke..separuh org ke...org tak peduli...kat sini, mcm kera sumbing pun ada...tp, nak wat camne...dah boss buat schedule mcm tu...tp, tahla kan...issue schedule nipun...sepatutnya bos dah tahu kita baru..kasikla kita gang nak mkn...atleast takdela rasa mcm tertekan sgt...selalunya memang mkn ngan boss tu...sbb dia blh mkn bila2 je..dan, dia je sorang lagi pompuan kat team ni..yg 2 org pompuan lagi tu..mkn sekali.n, takkan nak mkn ngan laki...kang scandal lak...hehe..hari tu baru ada mamat ni nak bayarkan nasi lemak kat foodcourt pun...dah tak gi food court lepas tu.malasla mcm nak ada ramai2 kenalan...(ni nak elakkan scandal gak ni...)

3-rumah berterabur
hehe....asyik terbayang2 je kat rumah tu...byk benda tak settle...kain berlonggok tak lipat..tak basuh lagi..iron jgn ckp la...pagi nakgi keje, baru terhegeh2 iron.rasa mcm tak cukup 24 jam ada skrg...>>tgh berkira2 nak cari weekend helper ni...

4-mana my COACH wristlet ku????
misplaced my coach. memang rasa mcm dah letak atass meja, tapi kenapa takde..semlm satu hari rasa mcm takde mood. dah cari satu rumah...tp, tak jumpa..dahla dlm tu ada duit RM100 gak kot..duit budak2 ni dpt masa kenduri emi haritu.memula tu jumpa la dlm RM20, nakgi simpan dlm wristlet...confident je gi tgk kat situ,...sekali...aik? mana....lepas tu bermula la misi mencari...sampai skrg...mana coach ku???takkanla terjatuh ke...sob sob

5-kata kori
badan sakit2 la...penatla recenlty sbb mcm asyik angkat alani yg dah makin membesar...dan taknak jln2 lagi...isk..anak daraku ni...dia dah boleh jln kalau ikutkan..tp, penakut...so...nak kenala angkat dia turun naik tangga, dlm kereta..nak kena berperang...nak kontrol kebuasannya...nak kena angkat bawak naik rumah babysitter..alamak...tetiba teringat...lupa nak bawak pampers naik atas rumah babysitter...alamak.....haru haru...nasib baik pampers ako...skrg lak...hubby takleh aktif sgt...so, mcm nak kena double up tenaga sikit...tu yg rasa mcm hari2 bersenam...angkat besi berenang berlari...heheh....teringat lak lagu tu...>>kesimpulannya need massage...pampering myself...

6-dah lama tak jumpa shidot...ida..malis, fiza, yan..n gang2...
lama nya tak jumpa...dan skrg lak takleh chat,so takde tpt nak sembang merapu...kalau dulu, hari2 bukak chat room ngan ida, dot, fiza....tu yg mcm tak sempat nak tamaru stress..dah cerita...hahah...memang best betull..tp, sbb skrg semua orgpun baru start keje baru..tak semua la..tp, almost..tu yg tgh hard working sgt tu....hehe
dahla dulu, kat ofispun satu kepala...sembang mcm takde org keliling..pastu lepa satu call..dah kutuk user je...skrg...kenala jadi baik sikit...heheh

Thursday, October 30, 2008

Friendsss

What friends are for? The most reason I think is as a theraphy. hehe...anyone agree?
Actually semlm jumpa kawan lama..jumpa Irwan masa lunch...lunch date la ni...hehe..and jumpa Kak Lina masa naik ERL turun kat Tasik selatan. My hubby still on MC so I need to turun kat Seri petaling...dan, terusla ambik kesempatan jumpa Kak Lina...walaupun jumpa diorang sekejap...but it means a lot to me.
A theraphy for me utk mengubati hati yg sakit lepas kena sound ngan boss semlm. Isk..menyampah tollla...what do they expect...I'm just been here for not more than 3 weeks...itupun kalau tolak leaves, adala dlm 2 minggu. Been trained only for 3 days, lepas tu terus go-live. I admit that everything is about the same with my previous company, buttttt, their process, their procedure, systems are totally different.
But, as this is my 20 first calls, I believe it's not too severe.

Bila dah jumpa member lama, rasa mcm sayu je...I know keje mana2 pun sama...but, when it comes to member, environment..memang far more comfortable with my previous company. So far as I remembered working with my previous company, there were very few days which I hated to go to d office..the rest..is like...pegi office utk sembang2..utk blogging...haha...kantoi..suka ngular...
But, since I came here, semlmpun dah rasa malas...maybe jugak I'm a freshie...and, still don't have the aura here....I'll slowly adopt with this new small company.....

Anyway, I love all my friends...you all make my life more meaningable....(betul ke ni...hehe)

Monday, October 27, 2008

Incidentss

25th and 26th was my bro's wedding. All goes as we planned, alhamdulillah. 25th is the nikah and bride's reception in Ipoh, and the next day is our side's reception.Almost all our family members were here, thanks a lot. And, also special thanks to Mas and Ogy for your time*wink*
Unfortunately the nikah been delayed coz my youngest bro and hubby had met accident. sob sob. 2 kereta terlibat. My cousin car was terbabas into kebun getah and my bro car terbabas dan langgar pokok getah. Alhamdulillah they were not too bad injured. Shahrul(my little bro) had 7 stitch on head and 5 stitch kat betis, while my hubby had 1 stitch kat atas mata, bawah kening sikit. But, he can't walk properly yet, kaki bengkak maybe sbb terlanggar dashboard, and also dadapun still sakit. Got few scratches kat kaki and tangan. Mintak2 they all will recover fast. I still at my hometown, on unpaid leave i believe...belum check ngan HR.
Semua org doakan ye. Semoga my hubby cepat boleh jalan betul2...tu tgh pegi farmasi beli ubat dan tongkat...



Wednesday, October 22, 2008

define future

Ekonomi US dah jatuh. So, akan difollowed by other few ..or maybe a lot of countries which have direct contact or deal with US like Korea, Singapore etc.
I think will also followed by other countries coz US control the whole world economy...
For investor, it's a good chances to grow your property..and for the rich, perhaps to start lookng for any lelong houses and permises.
And, for us...the marhaen people...hmm....maybe it's time to start looking forward to buy saham or maybe insuranse atleast.
FYI, just heared from hubby's insurance agent, your lifetime coverage will be up to RM750K for RM150/monthly premium. It's increased RM500K than before.
How desperate they are to have investors or maybe need cash to roll their business I think...I'm not from Economy background so not very familiar with all those terms..but, still can see that it's quite good time to start planning for your future.

But, be extra careful..don't leave your daily job(as per advised by Robert kiyosaki). Just double up your energy and effort to lighten up your future....if your direction is to be a financial freedom. *wink*

Tuesday, October 21, 2008

Bisa ka ini Pak?

Punyala takleh imagine..all this while been paid to support bilingual...ini dah jadi trilungual...hehe...kena support Bahasa Indonesia!!
'boleh saya bantu bapak utk mencari solusi ini?' kekek...
kena bykkan tgk sinetron lepas ni. Mcm nak pecah perut masa first got call from Pak Petrus..I'll remember his name untill forever....he made my day...hehe
I'm furnishing my English together with Indonesian language....mcm makin jelas je nampak Bali melambai2....hopefully takde la terlupa pulak my Jap...takut yg dikejar tak dpt, yg dikendung berciciran..

Btw, cerita pasal weight management sikit. Masa raya tu punyala ngeri tgk selera mkn sendiri...mcm tak ingat mkn...but, yg bestnya masa timbang kat rumah hubby's auntie...terkejut lak..berat maintain...ker, mcm kurang sikit...maybe penimbang tu salah....*wink*.
Kiranya mcm dah boleh maintain altho dah lama jugak tak consume HL. eversince raya la kot...Skrgpun still weighing myself everyday, and still maintain...
And, the good is...we were on track again..we were out for jogging since last week...memula rasa mcm malas je...tp, once dah jejak kat track tu with my jogging shoes yg dah berabuk..terus rasa semangat...rasa mcm lepas ni nak terus maintain jogging...
Masa tak jogging dulu, memang rasa badan tak best...atleast dpt jogging seminggu sekalipun..dah ok.

p/s : since last week we the whole family mcm rotate pulak tak sihat. Memula Alani demam, pastu me selsema(sampai harini) and semlm Ako lak demam...mintak2 hubby sihat la...lagipun sbb hubbypun dah start pegi gym balik..

Sunday, October 19, 2008

Raya....

Ni la sebahagian gambar2 raya haritu. Punyala berzaman nak upload gambar..syawal pun dah masuk ke 20...tinggal lagi 10 hari je nak mood raya ni...hehe...punyala lama.
Semua org best tak raya? hehe..banyak tak kumpul duit raya(utk anak2 or diri sendiri), dan banyak tak spent masa raya? huh...cerita spent masa raya....boleh tahan penangannya kan..thn depan raya, rasa mcm nak start beli dr skrg je...esp nya baju sendiri la..hehe....sebenarnya dah terbeli kain utk diri sendiri masa nak beli kain utk hantar my bro kawen nanti...maybe jadi salah satu..ke salah dua...kekek....utk raya...
Bila dah ada anak ni...kemeriahan raya tu lebih sikitkan...Anyway, selamat hari raya ke-19. (sempat ke nak puasa 6 ni...sambil ganti puasa...) ...



raya pertama di Johor..sampai raya ke 4


Ako n Alani bersama bapa2 saudaranya...dan, us.


raya kedua....dan bersama beloved mom on raya ke...brp ek...tak ingat..hehe