Tuesday, August 12, 2008

Condolence Rejab

Past few days there are several condolence incident happen.
On Aug 1st, my cousin's hubby had an accident. He was riding a bike and been bump by a TANK lorry! Could you imagine how bad it was? Tulang rusuk sebelah kanan patah 3, and yg the last one patah lagi 3. At that moment we visited him, he can't even breath with his own esofagus(betul ke ni...hehe). All with machine helped. The bad thing is, because nobody witnessed the incident, so we don't know and even to predict which part of his body was internally injured. Dr still investigate his head, his back and everything. But thank God his leg was completely safe. Only small few scars.

3 days after that, my neighbour passed away. Actually on the 1st(sat), he was admitted to ICU, but inconjunction with my cousin's accident we were'nt able to visit him. And, on around 4pm on that next Monday (4/8) he passed away. We drove all the way from KL to Teluk Intan on that night after work and took emergency leave on the next day. We as the closest neighbour took care of their family's meal etc. For Muslim, we can't have any cooking or any ceria event while the jenazah still at home, so we make sure every meal prepared by us. Also a lot of thanks to one of our neighbour who sponsored the breakfast and lunch for 50s pax.
But, before we went back, my dad got a call from my other cousin that his dad was nazak. Huwaaaa.....what a condolence again. My uncle staying in Sabak Bernam, not too far from our hometown basically, but since there are several times before that he was nazak...so, we decided to see him maybe later..(menyesal nya.....tapi tak guna kan..)
And, after a long day we did travel back to KL...but...

Early in that morning around 820am, I got calls from my dad.Really suspicous...and, my sense was right...my uncle had just passed away. My dad actually just arrived home from visited him at 4am thinking that my uncle would be fine. But, Allah love him more. He passed away at 820am. Without picking up our childs, we rushed to Sabak Bernam. Luckily I wear baju kurung...no need to balik rumah dulu..hehe..
The jenazah dah lengkap dimandikan and by 3pm they bring him untuk dikebumikan.

Al-fatihah untuk arwah pakcik Matnor and Paktua Mail.....semoga ditempatkan bersama org2 yg soleh....

After all, there are a good news. My cousin's hubby who had accident last 11 days ago, had recovered miraclely slowly. Last night when we visited him, he had already moving, EATing and talking as per normal(altho not too clear and shivering) and even make few jokes....he is very super strong man...he said he will recover faster is he eats a lot(while eating yong taufu..huhu)...his wife(my cousin) also said right after he woke up(after 7 days), he said he must recover fast to look up for mom and her. Sedihnya..sadisnya...the most touching moment I think....
Before we left him, he mentioned to have ikan haruan meal cooked by my mom. My mom is a kelantanese....same with him...that's why they are quite sekepala....same loghat and food taste la katakan...I will call my mom today to tell her his wish...hehe..
Hopefully he will recover faster and be more stronger and stronger....

3 comments:

Yani Yusuf said...

hurm yani...takziah yer utk semua masalah yg menimpa. Kadang2 apa yang terjadi tu ada hikmahnya kan...take care

mimi said...

Innalillah and salam takziah.. Seramnya kalau dengar pasal accident motor ni sebab sendiri pun hari2 pegi kerja naik motor walaupun perjalanan cuma 20minit... tak larat kan jammed kat senai+some other minor reasons.. Cerita2 macam ni boleh jadikan pengajaran supaya kita berhati2 di jalanraya..

Tirana said...

Innalillahi wainna ilaihi raaji'un..Mudah-mudahan roh mereka di tempatkan bersama orang2 yang beriman..Amin.